The debate on whether it is better to be in a relationship or to be single is endless. Yet we need to understand that if we think logically, we will come to an understanding that there will always be something better. We humans often desire of the things we don't or can't obtain. That, is the art of desire.
And with being single, there often seem to be more cons than pros. Why ? Because we think about the loneliness, and the lack of care and love we could receive. Yet that is not entirely true. I think that it's often the same in a relationship. In a romantic relationship, you can still feel alone whenever he/she/they can't give you the attention that you crave for, and you can still feel unloved whenever he/she/they aren't loving you the way you need to be loved. I've came to notice, that often in opposite situations, the outcomes can be similar in a way. Single or not, there will be struggles, because that's just part of life.
I think that even though there may not be as many pros for being single, but the pros are more valuable than the pros in a relationship. When you're single, you can understand the sense of self much clearer. You can choose for what's best for you, and develop the sense of understanding who you really are and what you really want. I find that most humans are actually not sane enough for a relationship. Why ? Because we don't know ourselves. If we get into relationships not knowing what we want, when the time comes to be alone again, we will not only lose a relationship, we will lose ourselves.
How To Be Single 3.0:
Treasure the advantages of being single, and learn from them. Use this opportunity to really understand yourself. Know who you are and know what you want. Develop your thoughts, your personality, your interest, your morality, your believes. Become the person you want to be, because you won't have to compromise who you are with anyone. Just be you.
Stay Fabulous, xoxo
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