Friday, May 20, 2016

The Art of Sexting


          We often forget that sex isn't just physical. Sexuality can be performed mentally and intellectually as well, and sexting is one of the best examples out there. Sexting takes practice, and even talent, very similar to physical sex. Yet sexting is interesting because it's created for our modern society, it's creating words for us humans to imagine and visualize, turning us on unlike anything else. That, is the art of sexting.

          Through the internet or our mobile service, we can now have sex mentally through sexting. No matter where the other person is, or what that person looks like at the moment. Sexting allows us to use words to explore our human sexuality. We no longer have to filter ourselves, and we have to the freedom to let out our deepest desires. Sexting allows us to feel protected enough to explore and reaveal our sexual fantasises.

          It's interesting, because that even though we live in such a hypersexualized society, we repress the conversation of sex. We slut shame, we ban from opening up the talks of sexuality, and we are afraid of the outcomes of sex. Yet we really need to start exploring our human sexuality. It helps us understand ourselves better, not just phscially, but mentally as well. We can understand what we want, and what we're missing. The secret fantasies and desires deep within us, can actually reveal a lot about who we are and our past. And using the form of sexting, uncensors us, letting us be more free, and open with what we want.

          But of course, be careful, be respectful, and don't do anything illegal or harmful to yourself or others. I encourage people to healthyly open up the conversations about human sexuality and to respectfully explore their human sexuality with others. Yet, it's important for us to first learn the significance of consent. Sex should be valued, respected, and used to bring us human beings closer, and happier.

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