Love Clinic 1.0

          It's been awhile since I talked about Love and Relationships eh ? Well, as a happily single teenager, I may not have many experience to share, yet I think about love everyday. Plus, maybe I can offer a different perspective on Love since I'm single. So welcome, to Leon's Love Clinic.

          Love 101 : Love doesn't Fade, it's the People that Change.

          I believe that the idea of eternity is a form of perfection, yet us humans are far from perfect. Love is an emotion created by humans that can be sometimes forever and even perfect, yet it's subjective. So love can be perfect, but relationships are very flawed. It's often common that we people who are in relationships wishes for eternity. Though relationships don't tend to last forever, we can still believe that our love can have the chance of eternity. Since emotions are associated with memories, love can be treasured and kept alive as long as the memories are there. My advice for those who are wishing on a forever is, Don't forget the Present. If you dwell on the idea of eternity, you'll forget the present and lose your chances to make the moments/memories that makes up that forever. Because you see, all the future is, is really just what the present has became. Love only changes because of the people. Focus on teach other and the moments you share, and treasure those beautiful, and happy memories.

          Break Up 101 : What's really Difficult about the Break Up, is the Letting Go.

          One of the things that hurts the most after a break up, is that you realize that you no longer have a "we"/"us" to talk about, or to even think about. We all can dwell on the memories created, but we need to know that the reason why we do, is really not just because we miss them, it's also because that we want to lie to ourselves. We intensely grab on the past because we can't accept of what has happened in the present. You may not understand, how a relationship can just end. How from now, his/her laughs, tears, blushes, and emotions/actions in general will no longer be because of you, yet some may only be just about you. But, you need to understand, that the more you look into the past, the more you're letting go of the present. What you need is to let go of the past and face the present and be ready for the future. It's okay to cry, it's okay to take time, but you can't use the forever you wished for your relationship here alone. And when it's time, when you're ready to let go. You'll finally be free.