Love Clinic 4.0 - Crushes

          Crushes. (countable noun.) - an informal feeling of love or admiration for someone, often someone you know you can not have a relationship with.

          We all have crushes, and we can't really control them. We are attracted to certain people, and sometimes no matter how much we repress those feelings, we know deep down, that we want them. It's fascinating how little we can know about our crushes, yet still developing these complicated, beautiful feelings for them. It's the attractions to their smallest details, that makes it even harder for us to stop. It's a fantasy. It truly is, because we forget, we forget the possibilities of their flaws, faults, and mistakes. We are blinded by our feelings, and we no longer see them just as another human being. It's a pre-stage of love I would say, shallow, cheap, and fiction.

          Love 401 - Crushes : Grow Up !

          Most crushes don't get the chance to blossom into a relationship, and when it does, it grows and matures. We have to actually get to know the person, and learn about their flaws. That's how love grows. And we can never have a meaningful relationship unless we grow up, and stop letting our fantasies blind our sense of logic. We need to have the desire to want to know about that person. We need to sometimes turn off our imagination, to set ourselves back into reality, with that person.